At the heart of Glowing in the Dark is a simple truth:
We cannot control other people, but we can learn to tend our own hearts. In counseling, this is called our Locus of Control. When we focus only on what others did, we stay stuck. When we gently look inward by noticing our thoughts, emotions, and spiritual life, healing begins.
The R.E.C.L.A.I.M.E.D. Healing Protocol woven throughout these pages gently guides you back to what is yours to heal by helping you shift from dependency to identity and from confusion to clarity.
And because I’m a little out of the box, I am "working" with Grandma Eden from Promise Hill to help. She brings wisdom, warmth, and just enough sass to remind you that healing can be tender and not heavy.
You are not a problem to fix, but a soul to tend.
Even in the dark, your glow is still there, you just need a little guidance to get it back.
My Christian Counseling Companion enhances the healing and self-discovery process for women who are in or entering counseling. This journal was specifically created for those who want to grow spiritually, take time for self-reflection, keep track of counseling homework, and learn new ways to connect to God all in one place. This is an easy read, so you are not overwhelmed with too much information.
What do you do between counseling sessions?
My Self-Care Counseling Companion enhances and super-charges your counseling journey. This simple guide is specifically created for people who want to take time for self-reflection, keep track of counseling homework, and integrate much needed self-care. This is a Christian focused guide to help with the directive straight from Jesus...love your neighbor as yourself (Matthew 22: 37-39).
This is a best-seller! Learn from those that walked before us. This is a great study on your own and in groups.
In Episode 6, Mira gets a flower bookmark from Eden—and honestly, could there be anything sweeter? I’m a sucker for flowers and bookmarks. How about you?
I also love giving and receiving little gifts. So I thought, why not make some simple flower bookmarks to share? It’s such a fun, easy project, and what a lovely way to let someone know they’re on your heart.
Will you join me? Let’s spread a little beauty—and maybe a bit of Promise Hill magic—one bookmark at a time!

I use essential oils almost daily. Ok, maybe 3 times a week. They are an important part of my life, from killing fungus to helping with headaches to making my office smell great. I am very picky with where I purchase.
I have chosen to partner with Simply Earth.
They are not an MLM, they send you products each month (when you sign up), you can look at the testing to make sure they are pure oils, and they teach you how to make homemade goodies such as candles and deodorants, and so much more. They send easy-to-follow videos and are a fun company.
When you sign up with my code, you get a $45 gift card for future purchases with them. But you must use my code to get your gift card.
The code: PROMISEHILLFREE
Want to experience a taste of the Holy Land while supporting artists, craftsmen and small businesses? Artza is Christian-Jewish organization that partners with small businesses all over Israel. When you sign up for a box, you will receive a special selection of several handmade items. This supports families that are now trying to survive in their war. While Israel is usually a high touristy area, all that has stopped. I will be making unboxing videos soon, which you will find on YouTube.
Get 20% off your Artza boxes with my discount code: KHERMAN
I love wood carvings, and the idea of a carved bluebird given to Mira's mom, Ruth, from her dad was exciting. I love metaphors. This bluebird in episode four represents connection, bonding, and promises. I found a bluebird I liked on Amazon, but I am sure you could find others on Etsy. Or if you lived in Promise Hill, we could just ask Nathaniel Ember to make you one.